This is one that shows the power to heal that can sometimes come with this lifestyle. I had such a good time talking to Taylor and Chris who are a Stag/Vixen couple. Theirs is a story of high school sweethearts who got started in this lifestyle in a most unusual way.

In Stag and Vixen circles, this is known as “reclaiming” and the focus of the couple returning back to each. The stag gets a thrill from watching his vixen have sex with another man. For a man to be a cuckold, his partner would have gone behind his back to do the deed – bringing him shame and humiliation. The Vixen, also known as ‘Hotwife’, has sex with the encouragement of her husband or boyfriend with the Bull (that’s the guy who is servicing her). Stags get a kick watching their wife or girlfriend having sex with other men. Ben often arranges to have other men come to the house so Susan can please them sexually.

A cuckquean fetishist is aware of her partner’s activity, sometimes actively encouraging it, and derives sexual pleasure from it. Among some fetishists, the cuckquean’s humiliation or victimization is a major element of the paraphilia. A nurse and teacher married at 19, she had never been with anyone else. So they started to explore despite the husband’s issues with jealousy. As it turns out–the thing that fills him with angst is also the thing that turns him on like nothing else. Listen to how they found their way into the lifestyle and figured out what works and what doesn’t.

We will ask for the selected writer to sign an NDA before any money is exchanged. The couple says their lifestyle has only brought them closer. According to Shane the term best explains them because it is a description that suites them perfectly as there is no humiliation or denial involved.

A book on steps to living a Stag & Vixen relationship for real. As there are almost infinite combinations of flavors of ice cream, toppings, fruits, sprinkles…, hotwifing couples should find whatever variety of practices that works for them, call it whatever they want, and just have at it. My wife and I are in a Stag/Vixen relationship with men she meets on Adult Friend Finder. While according to New York Post, ‘Cuckold porn’ is the second-most searcher porn term after ‘youth’, this scenario is a bit different.

Whether you’re new to exploring your sexual boundaries, or seeking your next exciting adventure, we’re here to give you access to all the resources you need to illuminate the roads along the path of your individual sexual enlightenment. We turned our lives around and with defined and considered steps we now have a very exciting life together and that life has again – everything to offer us. A massive confidence boost and a real kick up the backside to any marriage in the doldrums. Your comments are welcomed and encouraged so please feel free to leave one to share your thoughts, questions and even your criticisms. Leading up to Christmas, things went a little quiet on the ‘Hotwifing’ front due to it being such a busy time of the year.

It is a simple enough equation that the greater the love and respect between a stag and vixen partner, the greater their pleasure in the lifestyle. The blog will spend a lot of time dealing with the issues of how to establish and maintain loving stable relationships as an issue independent of the stag and vixen dynamic and lifestyle as this is the bedrock of the lifestyle anyway. A wannabe stag or vixen cannot be the real thing warframe salvage mission without being in a real relationship and those in such relationships will want to stay in them regardless of their stag and vixen status as that is simply far more important anyway. From evidence gained from running this blog, it is probable that only about half of couples in which at least one partner has this desire actually take this lifestyle into reality and those that do, do so to varying degrees of involvement .

In the short time I have known Mr. Mocha, he has become a dear and trusted friend. He and I talk often and we will have some seriously deep conversations on the lifestyle. We often said to each other, “you know, we really should record these conversations”. We decided to take it a step further and make it a live event which we host on Twitter spaces.

In this episode Michael C welcomes Hotwife Jade to the podcast. She details her journey from dating and marrying her high school sweetheart to becoming a full fledged hotwife. Hers is a story of self discovery and highlights the benefits of this lifestyle beyond sexual gratification. I couldn’t think of a better way to commemorate my 100th episode than by having a conversation with my longtime friend and fellow Bull, Boneslinger2003. He and I go way back, and I’ve always enjoyed the conversations we’ve had about the lifestyle. I was long overdue in bringing him into the China Shop and now he is here.

Keep in mind, this is not about us telling anyone how they should walk this path, we are merely giving you food for thought and hopefully our discussions will spark conversations between those that you share this lifestyle with. It is common knowledge that women involved in the lifestyle often have their own insecurities to overcome. What is talked about less often are the insecurities that the male partners often face once a couple enters this lifestyle. This is a very thought provoking episode that I encourage couples to listen to together if possible. My hope is that this will spark some healthy dialog between husbands and wives.

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