There are several blogs and sites dedicated to the hotwife and stag and vixen fantasy. One couple not only share their bed but also their stories on their blog, Secret Vixentalking about their experience in becoming part of the hotwife lifestyle. You’re going to get a bunch of answers to this which will contradict each other. The only central tenets are that the stag is not a cuck, as he can be seen to be in the hotwife fetish .
Having never really been single for an extended period of time, I very much missed out on the dating scene and had never been on a date with someone who wasn’t previously a friend. Therefore I missed out on those butterflies that one has when going on a first date. I’m certainly not complaining and feel very fortunate with my love life previous to marriage. I love getting to know a ‘potential’ bull and the anticipation of a first meet is exhilarating, not to mention the possibilities that it can lead to. Where ‘dating’ in the hotwife lifestyle differs to that of conventional dates is that there is no pressure.
My ‘Bigger Bull,’ being closer in proximity, was fast becoming more than an occasional acquaintance which enabled me to grow in confidence with him and therefore spontaneity. Up until this moment, it was always my pleasure that was the driving force of our encounters but seeing as Christmas was just around the corner, I was feeling very giving. It was time for me to act out one of his ultimate fantasies. My whirlwind adventure in the ‘Big Apple’ had well and truly begun and already provided me with many memories that I would be unlikely to ever forget. I had only been on US soil for a few hours and in that short time I had sipped cocktails in a sophisticated rooftop lounge, danced to live music in a cosmopolitan bar and experienced my first ever BBC back at my hotel.
The Vixen, often known as ‘Hotwife’, has sex with the encouragement of her husband or boyfriend with the Bull (that’s the guy who is servicing her). We have always felt like the stag/vixen dynamic was one where they BOTH like watching the other one have sex with other people. Couples who practise stag and vixen fantasies are not, however, automatically polyamorous or open. Stags and vixens often only have sex this way in pre-arranged situations, having negotiated their boundaries and when they are both present. Well, in cuckolding, the person watching is being humiliated.
The Stag either joins in or watches as a voyeur. The Vixen, or, as they are known in some circles, Hotwife, has sex with the encouragement of her husband or boyfriend with the Bull (that’s the guy who is servicing her). In short, a Stag enjoys his Vixen being desired and sexually enjoying herself with other men or another lady. It is important to recognise during these sexual adventures there is no humiliation by anyone, it is a respectful and highly sexually charged experience. A Stag is a Stron Alpha Male who enjoys his Vixen having sex with ither men. The Stag will always be evolved, watching or joining in.
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It has had such an extraordinary impact on our marriage and all in very positive ways. My husband and I have always been incredibly close, something our friends have often expressed jealousy of but it has somehow brought us even closer and we find great enjoyment in our secret as no one would ever expect it of us. A Stag/Vixen relationship is a subset of Hotwifing. Typically, this implies that the Stag is actively involved in all aspects of her extramarital relationships. This may include playing with her and her extramarital partners (MFM or FFM, etc.).
I never imagined that others would find enjoyment from it and I certainly never thought that couples would come to me to express the transformative impact it had had on their own marriages. As a result of the blog and my twitter account, my husband and I have made some great friends; people we would never have come to meet if we hadn’t stepped down this stag and vixen fantasy path. In an article for the NY Post a couple explain why they prefer the description of stag and vixen rather than a cuckold.